tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post7157886758535855579..comments2023-07-28T18:11:59.147+02:00Comments on acidicice: James/Sebastianacidicicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09233702169345244420noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-45695971589429218262008-11-07T11:24:00.000+02:002008-11-07T11:24:00.000+02:00I am sorry to read what you had to go through. I h...I am sorry to read what you had to go through. I hope that you take the time to grieve and God will get you through this.Marleen Swarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06816600553786398390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-68748899679805313952008-11-06T16:49:00.000+02:002008-11-06T16:49:00.000+02:00Do not feel bad about crying is what I meant to wr...Do not feel bad about crying is what I meant to write.<BR/>xxJetsetterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08054489017705870225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-9903628362820879152008-11-06T16:47:00.000+02:002008-11-06T16:47:00.000+02:00HelloI am really really sorry to hear what you wen...Hello<BR/><BR/>I am really really sorry to hear what you went through, it sounded horrible. <BR/>I thought you must have had to have the baby. I hope that you are feeling better now, and take the time to grieve and heal. <BR/>The baby seemed to have too many defects and you did make the right decision, James/Sebastian, is better now and at peace.<BR/>25% possibility of defect is high, but that is still a 75% possibility that your next baby will be healthy and fine.<BR/>If you try again, save up so that you can have some extra scans done earlier. It is devastating to have such bad news and for your little boy to have been so badly formed.<BR/>I am hoping that it was a unique case and next time you will have the healthy little girl you wanted.<BR/>I do not think a post mortem would have helped you either. Better to let your little boy rest in peace.<BR/><BR/>Whatever your mother did is obviously inappropriate and very insensitive. <BR/><BR/>Rest now and recover, the worst of the ordeal is over. Take the time to cry and do not feel about it, you have the right to grieve.<BR/><BR/>All my love<BR/><BR/>Jetsetter (your babycenter friend)<BR/>xxxxJetsetterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08054489017705870225noreply@blogger.com