tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post3158021157509782959..comments2023-07-28T18:11:59.147+02:00Comments on acidicice: Failuresacidicicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09233702169345244420noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-66171021583079682502009-01-26T11:47:00.000+02:002009-01-26T11:47:00.000+02:00I agree with Wenchy - you have gone through a very...I agree with Wenchy - you have gone through a very hectic loss, and you can't put a time-line on grief. You need to be a bit easier on yourself and allow yourself to grieve... no matter how long it takes. <BR/><BR/>It feels like crying is a weakness, but it's actually not - you are dealing with things, which takes courage. Just take it a second at a time, and be kind to yourself for as long as you need to be. <BR/><BR/>As for the weight thing, I've also been down that road many times. When I started getting hectically into Muaythai I was training almost every day, and eating properly, and I lost loads of weight. The problem is, as soon as I stopped my hectic schedule, it all fell apart and I ended up carrying more weight than before. <BR/><BR/>Now, I have to force myself to exercise (mostly I can manage a few runs and sessions on my exercise bike) and I have to watch what I eat. It's slow and I get frustrated every time I look in the mirror or try on something I haven't worn in a while, but I know that if I just keep at it, eventually it will start coming right. <BR/><BR/>Again, we need to learn to be kinder to ourselves and not be so hard on ourselves. It's hard, but you have it in you! :-)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02496988187944075655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-55470806466215001122009-01-23T21:10:00.000+02:002009-01-23T21:10:00.000+02:00Firstly... it is still early days. Cry if you want...Firstly... it is still early days. Cry if you want to. Come on babe, think about it.... your child died... fuck if that is not a reason to cry and feel like utter crap for no 'good' reason I don't know what is. CRY IF YOU WANT TO CRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>Weight loss... I can identify with all you have written. I think at the end of the day it is all about excercising more and eating less.Wenchyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03034000885444098456noreply@blogger.com